Thursday, June 30, 2011

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Tuesday, June 28, 2011

6 Strategies to Control Anger before it Controls You



1. Relaxation – Relaxation tools such as deep breathing, meditation, and yoga can help minimize feelings of anger that may otherwise spiral out of control. Relaxation techniques should be practiced daily to maximize its effectiveness.

 2. Cognitive Restructuring – This fancy term simply means changing the way one thinks. Anger begets anger. If one is always thinking in the negative, their frame of mind will stay in the negative. Think positively and stay away from using words like, “never” and “always”. Nothing is ever absolute. Anger never solves anything; actually it does the opposite by fueling the fire.

3.  Problem Solving – Anger is mostly caused by some problem in our lives. The obvious response is to find a solution to that problem. Unfortunately there may not always be a solution, so focus on the way the situation is handled. Making a plan, checking the progress, and give it one’s all makes one less likely to lose patience.

4. Better Communication – Don’t jump to conclusions, as they may be wrong. If you find yourself in a heated discussion, slow down and think through the responses instead of shooting off the cuff. Sometimes the first thought that comes to mind is not always the best response. To have communication, one also has to listen! Listen to the other person and what they are saying as well as listening to the anger that may be brewing. At this point, using the other strategies become very important.

5. Using Humor – Humor can defuse anger and rage by obtaining a more balanced perspective. Try this technique: The next time you are angry and call someone a mean name, think about what that name really means. For example, “dirtbag”, image that person actually being a bag of dirt. Seems a little silly doesn’t it? But it can be effective.

6. Changing Your Environment – If work makes you angry, think about changing your job. If certain people in your life make you angry, try coping strategies to control the anger and possibly walk away from the angry situation at hand. Cooling off periods, giving yourself a break, and having personal time help to diminish anger.



Citations:
American Psychological Association. (2011). Controlling Anger Before It Controls You. Retrieved from http://www.apa.org/topics/anger/control.aspx#

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      Saturday, June 25, 2011

      Improving Memory Techniques




      Memories are supposed to last a lifetime, according to many popular quotes. But for some, memory doesn't last a lifetime. People take different approaches to the prevention of memory loss.

      One way people attempt to prevent memory loss is by searching out the latest pill or treatment. Stores like GNC sell herb pills, vitamins and supplements by promoting products as brain boosters and memory pills.

      Psychologists look for alternative strategies that have nothing to do with the latest memory prevention fads. They focus on learning and memory. Common strategies include:

      Mental snapshots – Think of your mind as a camera. By taking a "mental snapshot" of where you placed your keys, you are taking a mental note. This only takes a few moments to do.

      Slow down - If you are rushing around and not paying attention, your ability to remember where you left something will diminish. If you are trying to remember something you have read, slowing down and focusing on the information will render learning and memory retention.

      Brain training – Memory training helps individuals who are starting to exhibit early signs of memory loss. The concept is to bypass the faulty areas of the brain and training new areas of the brain to take the place of the faulty areas. A couple ways to do this is by using mnemonic devices and vanishing cues.

      Mnemonic devices are popular memory aids. They are often verbal and are used to help one remember lists or names. These devices rely on associations between easy to remember items and data that one wants to remember.

      Vanishing cues is another popular technique. If you are trying to remember a name, write down the letters that you know are in the name. Then fill in more letters until your recall kicks in.

      Use Technology – We are in the technology age, so use it to your advantage. Use the calendar system on your phone and create reminders for the appointments that signal you a few hours in advance to a few minutes in advance of the appointment. If you have a smart phone, there are numerous apps and games for improving memory and learning skills.

      Exercise – Research has shown that exercise and staying active helps boost your mood which in turn helps memory.

      Citations:
      American Psychological Association. (2011). Retrieved from http://www.apa.org/topics/
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      Friday, June 24, 2011

      10 Communication & Body Language Tips

       

      Communication is easier for some than others. We all know someone who just has that natural ability to communicate effectively and have the body language to back it up. It seems so effortless but the truth is that most people have to work at communicating with others. By practicing and mastering these 10 tips of body language, you are one step closer effective communication.



      1.    Stand up straight and lean forward when seated. This demonstrates interest in what the other person is saying. But be careful… you don’t want to be a “close talker”. Assess your proximity to the person you are interacting with. 

      2.    Use gestures and facial expressions. If you don’t use gestures and facial expressions, you are not conveying your message to its full potential. A smile goes a long way and makes for a more engaging and effective message. Move your hands around a bit. You don’t want to come across as being stiff, but yet again, use some refrain. You don’t want to look like an air traffic controller!

      3.    Eye contact. Very important! Eye contact says to the other person that you are listening and interested in what they are saying. This may be something that needs to be worked on because little eye contact shows disinterest and too much eye contact can make people feel uncomfortable. 

      4.    Don’t cross your arms. This is seen as defensive and closed off. Your goal when communicating with others is to be open and social.

      5.    Relax! This is easier said than done sometimes, but try to be conscious of the tension and nerves you may be displaying. Start by trying to relax your shoulders and the rest of your body will start to relax as a result.

      6.    The head nod. Nodding as the other person is talking displays you understand what they are saying. Nod every once and awhile, not constantly. 

      7.    Sit up straight. No one likes a sloucher! Slouching comes across as disinterest. 

      8.    Chin up! One of the signs of low self-confidence is staring at the floor when conversing. Keep your head and eyes up, showing confidence in your conversation. 

      9.    Lower your drink. If you are drinking and conversing at the same time, it is polite to hold your drink at your side. Holding your drink in front of your chest or heart makes you seem guarded. 

      10.  Mimic. During fascinating conversations, people tend to mimic or mirror each others body language without even realizing it! Take note of the body language that the other person is displaying and follow along. Just don’t be obvious about it because that will make the other person very uncomfortable. Delay your actions a minute or two later.


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      Thursday, June 23, 2011

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        Tuesday, June 14, 2011

        Insomnia Story





        Big test in the morning?

        High stakes meeting with a very important client tomorrow?

        These are normal circumstances in life which make sleeping the night before difficult for some. This is typically due to stress and the unknown of what the outcome of the next day will be.

        Where sleep becomes an issue is frequency of interrupted sleep as it is important to a person’s health. I, Mindy Perry, have struggled with insomnia for years without even realizing I had it or that it was a problem.

        Here’s some statistics from a survey done by the National Sleep Foundation (1999-2004):

        • 40 million Americans suffer from over 70 different sleep disorder
        • 60% of adults report having sleep problems a few nights a week or more. Most of those with these problems go undiagnosed and untreated.
        • More than 40% of adults experience daytime sleepiness severe enough to interfere with their daily activities at least a few days each month - with 20% reporting problem sleepiness a few days a week or more
        • 69% of children experience one or more sleep problems a few nights or more during a week.



        This is my life. For the longest time, I dealt with my overall sleepiness and multiple wake ups per night.  I was tired all the time, and I was able to fall asleep anywhere and at any time.  I did nothing about it for a very long time, just like the survey says.  I finally discussed my issue with my primary care physician about my sleepiness, and he suggested doing a sleep study in order to evaluate what was happening. This was the best thing I could have done.

        I’m not going to lie, the sleep study was not the most enjoyable experience of my life, but it was bearable. I am very thankful that I did because I was officially diagnosed with insomnia. Once I had the diagnosis, it became real in my mind and I worked at listening to my body instead of ignoring it. One of the options I was given was to seek the guidance of a psychologist who could help with sleep techniques.

        According to leading sleep researchers and psychologists, there are techniques to combat common sleep problems:
        • Keep a regular sleep/wake schedule (Which I do, and it helps track different times of the month when my insomnia is at it’s peak. By knowing when it may be at its worst, I can take a proactive approach)
        • Don’t drink or eat caffeine four to six hours before bed and minimize daytime use (My husband made tea at 8pm one day and I was up all night. Lesson learned!)
        • Don’t smoke, especially near bedtime or if you awake in the night (I quit two years ago!)
        • Avoid alcohol and heavy meals before sleep
        • Get regular exercise (This is important. Since being diagnosed, I have entered in a few 5k races in my community)
        • Minimize noise, light and excessive hot and cold temperatures where you sleep (Much to the dismay of my electric bill, I agree that a constant temperature helps to keep me asleep at night)
        • Develop a regular bed time and go to bed at the same time each night (This has helped tremendously.)
        • Try and wake up without an alarm clock (This is not an option for me, you’re lucky if you can do this.)
        • Attempt to go to bed earlier every night for certain period; this will ensure that you’re getting enough sleep
         
        All of the above techniques have helped me get a more restful night sleep. If you would like more information or help from a psychologist or counselor trained to help people cope with insomnia, please comment or give us a call. 

        Thanks for reading! I would love to hear your techniques on how to manage Insomnia!  
        - Mindy Perry



        Citations:

        American Psychological Association. (2011). How to get a good night sleep. Retrieved from http://www.apa.org/topics/sleep/why.aspx#

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        Image by: Allysa L. Miller. (2011). Photo license: Attribution 2.0 Generic (CC BY 2.0). Retrieved from http://www.flickr.com/photos/alyssafilmmaker/3628914665/
         

        Tuesday, June 7, 2011

        Mental Health Among the Elderly

        Mental health of the elderly is a growing concern.

        Think of mental health and then think of an elderly person. What images does that provoke? If you thought Alzheimer’s disease or Dementia, you are not alone, as they are some of the most common mental health concerns. 



        But, aging people face many mental health issues besides dementia related problems. Depression & anxiety are also very common and treatable! Other later in life problems that can result in depression and anxiety:
        • Declining physically & increased overall health problems
        • Caring for a spouse with dementia or a physical disability
        • Grieving for the loss of a spouse or loved one
        • Managing conflicts within the family structure
        • Moving in with family or into a nursing home

        The APA is predicting that by 2030, the number of older adults with mental and behavioral problems will increase from 4 million (1970) to 15 million!

        It’s time that awareness is drawn to this segment of the population. If more services were available, the elderly would have a better quality of life. Currently, psychologists provide more than 50,000 hours of care each WEEK to older adults! Some of the overall improvements if more services were provided would be:

        • Improved mental & physical health
        • Reduction in health care expenses by lowering the frequency of primary care visits


        As a mental health practice, we service the elderly population by treating patients in the nursing homes and by seeing patients in the office. But, it is really up to the family or the elderly individual to seek help. Yes, I’m back to the awareness part again. Families and communities need to create awareness and let go of the “stigma” that is associated with mental health. Everyone needs someone to talk to at some point in their lives, why not talk to someone who has special training?

        I urge you… do one thing today that will create awareness for mental health in the elderly today!

        Citations:
        American Psychological Association. (2011). Psychologists Make a Significant Contribution. Retrieved from http://www.apa.org/pi/aging/resources/guides/aging.pdf

        Image by JohnLucas1983. Flickr. An elderly couple attending the main rally at Hyde Park. (2011). Attribution-NoDerivs 2.0 Generic (CC BY-ND 2.0) Retrieved from http://www.flickr.com/photos/jlucas1983/5568304435

        Image by Ian Britton. Freefoto.com. (2011). Licensed under Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-No Derivative Works 3.0 License Retrieved from
        http://www.freefoto.com/preview/41-01-51/Elderly-People